NLP Can Help You Flirt
Yes, NLP can help you flirt with anyone. NLP is a tool that salesmen can use to influence prospective buyers, and in the same way you can use NLP techniques to pick up members of the opposite sex. There are a number of pick up artists that use NLP techniques, one of them is a man by the name of Ross Jeffries.
Modeling
NLP can help you flirt by using two cores of NLP technology, modeling and story telling.
Basically by mirroring some one’s body language you can make them feel more comfortable with you. When you can get a girl to feel more comfortable with you she will lower her defenses.
Many of us tend to mirror people naturally when we talk to them. Basically to mirror a women you would try to talk in the same manner as she does. If she speaks slowly you have to speak slowly, if she talks quickly in short sentences you have to do the same.
Story Telling
One way to influence how someone feels covertly is by using story telling, Milton Erikson the famous therapist used story telling extensively in his practice.
Story telling put someone at ease allowing you to plant suggestions in their heads. For example if you want a girl to experience feelings of excitement and intensity around you, you could tell a descriptive story about roller coasters.
Ross Jeffries has a whole course on how to pick up women using NLP story telling.
Using NLP On Yourself
One big aspect of NLP and picking up women is using the techniques on yourself as well. You can use NLP self confidence techniques to increase your confidence around women and minimize your fears of rejection.
Summary
Although this is a very brief intro of how NLP can help you flirt, I think you get the idea. I will try and post more about NLP seduction later. If you want more information I urge you to check out Ross Jeffries website at www.speedseduction.biz
Some people may find him offensive, but see what techniques he uses in his teachings, but also read his sales letters, they have lots of NLP techniques used to influence you to make a purchase. Ross if very good at what he does.
